May this person and the family be blessed.
We have all been through something in life. But no one can be prepared for death. We can't prepare for someone else's death let alone our own.
The truth comes out. The love for your family and friends. We will forget about our grief with them.
When my mum died on her deathbed in hospital, I arrived 3 hours or so prior to this to do my shift overnight with her. As my siblings left after a few bouts of emergency, I was left alone with her. Allah told me through my gut and heart that she was about to die.
I prepared with Wudhu. Recited Quran and made dua and read the Shahada. I was present till she took her last breath. The doctors decided to turn the monitor off towards her last beats of her heart, as it climbed down, there was no climbing back up by the looks of it. I never thought I would display the intense emotion that I did as I always thought it would not have affected me as I believed she was off to a better place in the Akhira.
Thie feeling of sadness, love, respect, words could not describe or put to a description, it came out in an intense bout of tears and an upset heart. I did not feel ashamed of my tears. I told my mum I loved her very much and to forgive us for our shortcomings and read the Shahada to her again. Though my mum could not speak or communicate with her body throughout her coma. I know she could hear me with the senses that Allah had allowed her to. The heart is a very special thing. I felt her love and I showed mine, or at least I hope. My father also passed away with me being present towards his end, I was 19 at the time.
To the people in the video, I hope you don't mind me putting this up. I have so much respect for you all and wish nothing but good for everyone including the mother who passed away. Allah knows best.
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